Getting Back Together With Your Ex-Discover How

First of all welcome to my site.

It’s great to meet you – I just wish we could have have met under slightly better circumstances.

I’m thinking out loud here but if you made it to my site then you are surely struggling with a tough situation at the moment and maybe looking  for some direction or help.

During my web travels I was lucky enough to come across this southern guy. Although he speaks a little slow and you may struggle with his southern accent  I did like what he had to say about fixing a relationship and getting back together with your ex.

 

Just take a look at what he says about getting an ex to return your calls

“Are there ‘magic’ words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?

Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?…

I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get that are trying to put their relationship
back together.

So I am going to answer…”How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?”

BUT…

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WARNING!
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In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay out a complete strategy.

Getting Back Together With Your Ex

If you use this technique alone, without an ‘overall’ plan or strategy…you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.

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What NOT to Say!
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Before we get into the actual words, let’s go over what message almost NEVER works.

and worse…

Puts you in an AWFUL ‘psychological’ position.

These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like

“John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you.”

And the EMERGENCY-

“Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this.”

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?

So, I won’t go on and on…

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How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest
To Your Advantage
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Two of the most powerful forces in
the human mind are

*Curiosity &
*Self Interest

And here’s the BIG SECRET!

When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work ‘magic’

So…

Let’s look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

“Hi John. It’s Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.”

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?

John will NOT be able to resist! “What did I do?” “What does she appreciate?” he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now…

Before you call you need to do the “Set Up”…which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing…but needs to be plausible.

But more importantly…

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2nd WARNING!
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Please have an underlying strategyBEFORE you call.

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If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.

Okay?

What I am saying is…

What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.

Make sense?

Have a PLAN!==> Getting Back Together Your Ex With

 

I’d really  like you to meet T Dub Jackson. Here’s a guy who has helped well in excess of 50,000 people worldwide. Maybe his advice can be helpful for you too.

geting back together with your ex

Click Here to meet T. Dub Jackson and watch his free videos.

A lot of folks that go through a breakup think their situation is helpless, but I really like what he has to say

Why not go and meet him  by clicking here.  He’s got some really useful videos and I’m thinking they might help you to.

 

 

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