If you are wondering if there’s a chance of getting back together with your ex then I am sorry to tell you that I don’t have the answer here. Unlike many of the sites you come across on the net, there simply is no one  single answer to a question like that.Your situation,your breakup, your split, your divorce is unique to you and your ex.Your circumstances are completely different to the next couples  and therefor the direction you take in trying to  get back together back with you ex should also be unique.

A lot  will depend on the dynamics of your relationship and also whether you  and your ex are willing to work at what has gone wrong in the relationship. Now many will suggest you go to a relationship councillor. Here you have the opportunity to talk you issues through with some one who will have experience in dealing with warring couples.They will have the experience of couples breaking up and also suggest ways to heal the rift or repair the relationship.

What if your ex won’t go to a  councillor with you. What do you do.Do you just give up.

Again this depends on  just how far you are willing to go  when getting back together with your ex. if you are willing to make a real effort at repairing your relationship  and you show your ex that you are even prepared to go to councillor on your own what sort of signal will it give your ex..This will send  a signal  to your ex that you  willing to go that extra mile to do any thing in your power to try and repair your relationship.

Now this is just one avenue you can take  when getting back together back with you ex.There are as many avenues as there are pot holes in New York.If you would like to read about some more then why don’t you have a look at this site.