Feels like this is all I talk about sorry but I just need alot of advice
I ring my ex girlfirend (we have been broken up for just over a month we were together for a year and a half we broke up because I got drunk at her prom and embrassed her and we had a huge arguement). Well after txting her loads asking her to get bk with me (her response being I don’t see you in the same then we way anymore. But other days she would she say maybe if we can still be friends we will get bk together and if you stop being stupid we will get bk together ). We’ve broken up before and she said if we ever broke up again we wouldn’t get bk together. Anyway I ring her up and she agrees to have lunch with me and we go shopping and its great talking about the old days and she was touching my arm quite alot and telling me about her new hobby Samba and the revealing clothes she has to wear. Then she sent me a txt saying today was great we should do that again. But then she cancelled seeng me for lunch is this a huge hint does she want to get bk with me or does she just want to be friends. And now when ever I ask her if she wants to hang she says she’s too busy, and I’m going on holiday for a week on Friday I’m scared she’s going to completely forget about me and totally get over me (if she hasn’t done soo already) we were together for a year and a half how could she not miss me and want to hang with me what does everyone think please. Also I sent her a txt today saying is this just a huge hint do you not want to hang with me anymore and she said no she’s just really busy and has already made plans. Maybe she is putting up a guard around her heart maybe she still loves me but dosen’t want to get bk together with me because of what I did I just want to show her It wont happen again but I can’t because she’s too busy to see me any thoughts thanks

I think you need to leave her alone. No woman (or man) wants someone as needy as your post describes. I’m sure you have many good traits. Concentrate on moving on. If she contacts you, great, deal with it then. If she is "playing" with your emotions, do you want a relationship with her. Would you pursue you best friend this way? Significant others should be best friends first.

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