Need Some Tips On Getting Back Together With Your Ex Boyfriend?

When getting back together with your ex boyfriend I  remembered  these tips that my best friend gave me. 

We managed to get back together so I sure they will work for you too.

1) Boy’s don’t like chit chat: Generally speaking boys don’t and won’t  talk in depth about their feelings. Trying to force the issue will just cause him to clam up. So when you are getting back together with your ex boyfriend, don’t try and force him to analyze just where it went wrong. If he was the one who behaved badly and is willing to apologize, accept that and move on. 

2) Boy’s can only concentrate on one thing at a time. This is actually true so don’t try and fight it. Very few  men are cabable of  multitasking and it’s their genetics that are to blame. Shouting at him is pointless.  The sooner  you accept  your man is unable to  listen to you while reading his book or watching sport on Tv the better. Most of the time, he is not ignoring you on purpose. The more you understand that this is the way boys are programmed the less arguments you will have.

3) Boy’s like toys.  You’ve heard the joke that men never grow up and show it by still playing with toys.  Most men love to build things or start a DIY job.However they don’t all like to finish these jobs which may cause you problems at home. Just  let him indulge his hobbies, within reason. Why not spend  time with your girlfriends while he is out fishing or building a car. By compromising like this, he will  be much more willing to spend  quality time with you doing things together that you both enjoy.

4) Don’t assume that he knows that you want to get back together. Men in general tend to be slow in picking up these signals especially  those about  a relationships. For this reason, you really need to be quite direct ,tell them just how you feel. Men simply do not like games unless they understand the rules like in football or Chess.  You know us women we change the rules on dating more often than men change their shorts so give him a break if he gets a bit confused. 

5) Heard the joke – “Why does it take loads of sperm to fertilize one egg?  Because they refuse to  stop for directions!”  I know the man in my life prefers to get lost, rather than  admit he’s lost  and stop to ask for some directions.  Generally boy’s find it  hard to admit they’re wrong. If you question what they say, they can believe you are implying they have done something wrong.  This can cause problems in modern relationships as women are so used to being the boss at work and giving others directions. 

I am not suggesting that  we as women have to become door mats or defer to their partners. But a little understanding of genetics goes a long way to help resolve the question of getting back together with your ex boyfriend.