What and how should i act to get back together with my ex boyfriend?
we broke up because he had to go to army college.
He said hes overwhelmed by physical and mental stuff
and we broke up after dating for a year.
i understand hes going through alot so im going to leave him alone and wait for him.
im having hard time getting over him and i think he is too because we loved each other to death.

im going to wait for him but right now we stopped talking for 4 weeks
after we broke up.
I wanna recharge myself and become friends with him
(i know its guna be hard but im ready)

so how should i act to get back with my ex boyfriend?

do you think i should not contact him for awhile and call him suddenly to surprise him?
or stay by his side as a friend and support him?

which one will increase my chance of getting him?

Stay by his side and support him. Soon he will understand the silent love you are giving him again. He will probably notice that you are acting like a friend but want to be something deeper. He will get the sign and will eventually ask you out again. Just keep waiting and if you act like a good friend, with patience and admiration, he will be able to accept you back as a girlfriend.

so my girlfriend broke up with me over a month ago. she never told me all the reasons, but she did tell me that she felt like i wasn’t there for her when her mom was going through a divorce and stuff. and i heard from other people that she didn’ t like all the girls always hanging around me (which i cannot help, it’s not like i was flirting), and she told one of my friends that she felt like i didn’t like her anymore. i really do love her, and i want to know how i can fix things and make them better? there’s also this girl in school who i kind of like, and she might like me but she’s talking to a guy who she says she doesn’t like. idk if i should date her or try to get back with my ex, because i miss her so much. any ideas on what to do or how to get my ex back?? thank you!!!

Well if your gf broke up with you then just suppose that she wants nothing to do with you. Move on and try talking to this other girl.

What if she puts a strap on on and does ya?

Hell she could stick a corn cob up there. If you aren’t gay you aren’t gay.

getting a new love??? do u really believe that ?
i want to hear your point of view

and if u have any OTHER ideas to heal a heart break?

thanks )

Do it by just remembering what was good with the relationship when you were with it and then move on to find what you are looking for but do not try to find a new one that matches the old one. Start over and live your life the best you can and be happy with what you are doing.

My boyfriend of 4 years just broke up with me 3 days ago. he decided that he just doesnt feel like being in a relationship anymore and he just wants to be alone. That was his reason.

I talked to him and told him that I thought he was making a mistake, but he told me that his mind wasn’t going to change. He told me that he needed to to be left alone for a while and that he would call me when he felt like it.

Some people told me that if I ignore him and play hard to get, he will miss me and come back to me.

I feel like this is my only option right now so i am trying to avoid contact until he misses me enough to talk to me.

When he does call, what should I say? Or should I just ignore his call?

Hello

Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.

If you want to win your ex boyfriend back check these 3 recommended steps:

1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.

Don’t let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can’t achieve the goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.

2.Don’t pester your ex boyfriend. Boys just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to feel better by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously call him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It’s better to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your lovely ex back.

3.Become an object of desire. If you can, get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start doing some exercises and eating healthy. When on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, others will easily see it. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.

These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back.However, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. You can learn about the most popular and reliable guides in this helpful blog:

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all the best

I was dating my ex girlfriend for over 3 years. She recently broke up with me and is now with someone else. I love her so much and want to know how I can get her back. She says she wants to be friends with me still but its hard to see that happening with her. I’ve tried to fight not contacting her but its really hard to do.
I don’t know why she decided to break up with me. It really confuses me pretty bad. I don’t believe I did anything to cause her to break up with me. Although maybe I was a little needy of her. But I was.

A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
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Sure do and I tell her I love her as well.

im really really heart-broken and i really need help cheering up.. please help me! or i’ll commit suicide~~ kiddin but i reallly need help!!!!!!

Marion, your heart is not broken. You’re just a little uncomfortable right now…because of your friend that you like and has a long distance relationship…honey, I’ve told you before you are too young to be caught up with one little boy. Find a couple more…there is not much you can do at your age but learn. I can’t tell you to go out with your girls and have a drink. I can’t tell you to break his windshield because he probably doesn’t have a car. The best healing and revenge is to feel better and to let everyone see it. I have a 14 year old daughter and we discuss matters of the heart practically every day. If you need someone her age to talk to, let me know. I will have her listen and give you advice…it’s advice I’ve given her so you can get it from the horses mouth. Hope you feel better love, it’s the holidays…

my ex and i broke up after almost a year of dating. he wants to get back together and i really like him still (we just recently broke up) but at the same time i dont want to just go back to him so willingly. what should i do?

Try to approach the matter in the right way. Plan ur ways and execute it such that u can again get on with the relation. people have succeeded and with the right approach u might succeed too.

There are some resources like this which can help u get back ur ex.

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My ex and I broke up after 2 years and he wants to be friends. I want him back. I love him so much. What would give me better chance of him wanting me back…being him friend and remaining in contact or cutting off contact? He said he’d rather have me in his life this way than not have me at all. I dunno….its hard for me to be friends cause i want him back and be in a real relationship again.

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