What was it like when your husband/wife came back from their first deployment?
I’m just wondering what it is like when your significant other returned from their first deployment?
How were they changed? What problems did you face? Was it stressful and exciting at the same time? Did it take a relatively short or long amount of time to get to "know" eachother again?
I refuse to believe that’s it’s all rainbows and butterflies when someobody who has been gone for several months returns and everyone’s life is expected to go back to normal. I want real experiences…I know this all depends on each individual relationship and other circumstances.
My husband has had 7 deployments to Iraq as an Infantry Marine….a lot of people get mad when I say this……but he has returned home just fine and is the same man. I mean there is always a period of him adjusting, but that is quite quick. My husband is a seasoned Marine and has been in 15 years. He is very good at separating work, deployments from his family life back home. However, I am currently dealing with him gone again, this time is the longest ever for 13 months to Iraq. I am hoping for the same blessing of a good return, however, we can only hope.
I feel blessed that I have had not any massive problems with a post deployment husband. However, everyone has different experiences. When my brother came back from his second deployment to Iraq, he had some issues. But with support from family, he kicked right back into routine and was fine within a few weeks. Just be supportive, loving and attentive. However, give him time as well to adjust.
Good Luck!
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