I hope The following  relationship break up advice proves helpful. it helped me after being dumped by my ex.

After any relationship break up you go through and many painful emotions. Your mood will swing from depression may be to anger with the only thing you’re able to concentrate on being what went wrong with your relationship or how can you possibly get back at your ex. The end of any relationship is painful enough so to begin the process of healing the relationship break up advice below will be handy. Every relationship break up is different and every one gets over a relationship break up differently. However the advice below  gives you the very best chance of getting your life back on track.

First. Friends And Family. You need to talk to someone you trust, who will be there for you when you feeling low.They will help you come to terms with the loss. They should be understanding and patient, because when the relationship breaks up all you’re going to be talking about is the break up. Every conversation, every topic that comes up will end up being to do with your break up. With the support of your friends and family and talking it through you’ll be able to work through the emotional roller-coaster and how you’re going to begin to move on.

Second. Moving on. After a while your begin to realize it’s time to move on. Your old life is no more ,time to  begin to fill your time with something else. Have you been putting off learning something new, may be going back to college, join a gym or maybe even volunteer. Now’s the time to make a decision to give it a go. There will never be a better time for you to start something new. It may seem heart less but you have plenty of spare time on your hands now so why not be constructive and do something you’ve always wanted to do. Not only will this give your confidence a boost but you’ll also be meeting other people and making new friends.

Third. Build your self confidence. We touched on this in number two, but it’s very important to find ways of making you feel better about yourself. It could be anything from the new look, outfit you’ve always promised your self, or maybe a trip you’ve always wanted to make. What makes you feel a great person, write them on a piece of paper. Don’t say you can’t think of anything, try again until you have at list. These are things that make you feel good so remember everything so not all bad.

Fourth. Make contact with your ex. Now I don’t mean ring them up or E mail them. What I’m trying to say is that you are going to have to meet them at some stage.  So if you’re getting back together girlfriend may be then this maybe be accidentally or accidentally on purpose but meet them you must. When you do eventually meet up resist the urge to beg. You know what I’m talking about here. If you want them back then begging may seem like the right thing to do. But in the long term all it will achieve is a loss of respect. I don’t mean don’t try to patch it up if that’s what you really want, but don’t demean  yourself by begging.

Fifth. Start dating. Now I know you won’t feel like it straight away but you deserve better than being by yourself. By putting yourself out there you are showing the world that you have moved on. If the relationship proves impossible to mend then by dating the healing process of a relationship break up is almost over.It surprising  just how much dating improves your confidence and and self worth.

I hope you find this relationship break up advice helpful. Remember any relationship break up  is not the end of the world.

If you think you can still save your relationship and need some advice on getting back together with your ex why not take a look at this video  for getting back together with your ex

Coping with breakup triggers many painful and unsettling feelings and emotions. Feelings of failure, feeling unwanted or unloved, sadness are just some of the emotions that you will go through when coping with breakup.This period often turns out to be one of the most difficult periods of our adult lives, we have no experience in how to cope, what to do, who to turn to.It’s common knowledge, especially with those who have experienced a breakup that it breaks your heart. Your world has been turned upside down, causing you to think that there’s no way through.

Any breakup throws you into uncharted territory. Everything in your life is disrupted, routine and responsibilities, your home life, your relationships with friends and family maybe even your identity. With any breakup comes uncertainty about the future,what ‘s your life going to be like without your partner, will you find someone else, are you going to end up alone, is there any way of breaking up getting back together.

Coping with breakup is difficult, but bear in mind that you can and will move on. Healing takes time so try and understand that you have to be patient with your self rather than being hard on yourself all the time. With your world upside down all these painful and unsettling emotions rushing through your mind try and keep this thought in the front of your mind -there will be good that comes from the breakup. You have an opportunity, although it may not seem like it now to learn from experience, you will survive and grow stronger and wiser and ultimately become a better person.

Now this may not seem possible at the moment but in time you’ll start cope with the situation better. Its normal after any breakup to feel sad, anxious about the future, depressed even. You have to accept that the reactions you are feeling to the breakup at the moment will lesson in time. You are venturing into the unknown and that can be frightening.

Give yourself a break, you will find it almost impossible to function at your optimal level. Coping with breakup takes the wind from your sales you’re not going to be able to be as productive or caring in exactly the same way as you were previously. No one is immune when coping with breakup,give yourself permission to take time to heal so that you can regroup and ultimately re-energize.

One of the most undervalued ways of coping with breakup is to not go through it alone. By sharing your feelings and emotions with your closest friends and family will help you get through this period. You could even consider joining some sort of support group where you are able to talk to others in a similar situation. By isolating yourself you will only end of raising your stress levels and this is ultimately going to get in the way of your recovery. Don’t be afraid to ask for help, you’ll be surprised just what people will do to help.

the girl i like told me how she likes this other guy.i had a crush on her and i now i feel all crappy inside. S.O.S!!!!!!!

does she know how you feel about her? get over her, if she ends up liking you she’ll come around but dont waste your time on her…

Lots of chocolate, friends and shopping

I know very well he is a cheater. But I have been so much in love with him and I feel so sad, hurt and broken heart. Never a single day, single minute I stop thinking about his cheating action. I can not get out this situation. I cried a lot and I do not know how to forget the cheater action. Do you know how to heal a broken heart? It happen to me more than one month since I decided to leave him, but I can not stop crying and thinking about him. Please help me. Thanks for your answer.

Time, and since its been over a month, try flirting with other nice guys. maybe it will help because you will not live on his memories forever, one day you’ll have to let another man into your life

I broke my gfs heart by cheating i miss her so much! but her heart is broke and im afraid i cant fix it ive tried everything.

ps. THIS IS MY SIS PROFILE I DIDNT WANT TO CREATE A NEW ONE!!!!

Well first off you screwed up, mate. Cheating is not a good way to go. And you think YOUR heart is broken? She trusted you and you spat on her trust. Imagine how she feels.

It takes a long time for a broken heart to heal. And I’m afraid you deserve it.

I fell in love with someone almost 10 years and I’m still in love with him even though we’re both remarried and haven’t had any conmunication since July. I tried everything but this deep longing is still there. HELP!!!

Sounds like you’re romanticizing your memories. You broke up for a reason. try remembering what they were. You’re both remarried so there’s no way you can be together again, so your only choice is to move on with your life.
Instead of thinking about this person from your past, find contentment in your present life. Devote all of that energy to your husband and consider his feelings. Also, do you have children or plan to in the future? They deserve to have a mother that’s not mentally somewhere else. Just because you still have feelings doesn’t mean that they should dominate your life. Sometimes you have to override you feelings with principles and logic.
And don’t forget to read the Bible and pray. Your creator knows better than anyone how to fix what’s broken. The longer you stay in God’s word, the more it will be reflected in your life.

Not that I ever experienced it ;]

But sorry to those that have…

With another broken heart

My ex has broken my heart 5 times and it hurts more each time. Every time i think of him i burst into tears. I love him. I wanted to spend my life with him. I thought i would be with him forever. He proposed before. He said he was going to propose again. Now he broke up with me again and broke my heart again. How do i get over him and heal my broken heart?
id get a new guy but i cant. im not attractive.
ofcourse the guy who broke up with me comments (GUYinLOVE [somethign close to that])
ok the person who answered with the name BOYinLOVE is my ex
also it was a miscount it was 7 times not 5

Looks don’t matter to everyone, don’t let that stop you from getting over someone that’s breaking your heart. If he’s broke your heart that many times, chances are he’s not good enough for you anyway. I don’t know you, but you definitely deserve better than that.
The way I got over my last ex of 3 years, was by putting all of my memories of him in a box. I eventually got rid of it, but it took awhile, it was definitely hard getting rid of everything, but it helps heal the heart. It just takes time, and as much as it sucks, that’s the best way to heal a broken heart. Just keep your chin up, and know that you’ll find someone that you can spend your life with. Time definitely heals most things. Take care, and good luck!

My ex boyfriend broke up with me last month in August in I’m still sad.

my girl friend of almost two years broke up with me a while back and i was really sad for about six months plus i had to see her everyday really it just takes time watch comedies not love ones and get back on the market i know its hard and it seems like theres no one else but really if they broke up with you for some bs reason then your better than them