Continuously  Calling Him

If  you truly  are genuine about getting back together your ex and win back your love, then you have to train  yourself, that you do not do certain things, which drive your ex further away from you.

And one very important thing is to give each other some time to calm down and to put your  thoughts and emotions in order. I understand very well, that you miss your ex, that you think, if you don’t do something immediately, he will be gone forever.

One of the most  common mistake which people make, who are considering getting back together with ex is calling several times a day, leaving messages on the answering machine. In doing this you simply do not recognize, how much you get on the nerves of your ex. He more and more gets an urge just to switch off the phone and  delete all your messages, because it all annoys the hell out of him and makes him angry.

Patience is the number one thing that will deliver you best results on getting back together with your ex.

That is why, you have to try to switch  your mind to something else. It is difficult, I know, but possible. And you have to do it. Don’t call your ex for two or three weeks. Let him have some space and calm down. It could happen, that he will call you by himself after a little time  pondering on what he may be missing.

Remember, the more you show  interest to your ex  by phoning him the  less he will want to see or hear from you. When  he begins to  understands that you can live without him, that you keep on smiling and get on with YOUR life he will very often have an idea to contact you himself.

So take this advice on board.DO NOT HASSLE YOU EX ON THE PHONE CONSTANTLY.It will not get you any nearer to getting back together with your ex.